By Suzie Harris
Strap on dildos are becoming more and more popular with both men and women. They are sex toys used by those who are daring to try something new - a kinky bedroom toy that can bring endless pleasure, put sparks in relationships, and give new thrills to both men and women.
What is a strap on dildo? Exactly like its name suggests, a strap dildo is a dildo that is strapped on, and in this case strapped onto a harness which is then worn around the waste. These dildos serves multiple purposes:
- Women can wear strap on dildos to give their female partner vaginal or anal loving;
- They can be used by women to give their male partner penetration in the anus;
- Men can wear strap ons so their female partner can experience double the pleasure, ie; the real penis in one place and the strap on in the other. Depending on what position you're in depends on which part goes in which place – doggie style the real thing goes in the vagina and the strap on in the anus, and if in missionary then vise versa.
Strap ons allow couples to explore new avenues in the bedroom. Women can experience a real buzz being in control of their partners pleasure, and men can have this same feeling being at the whim of his partner. By experimenting with strap on dildos it can encourage more open communication about each partner's fetishes and fantasies and encourage trying other new things.
Strap on sex allow lesbians to still experience penetration. Not only do they get to enjoy penetration, but they too get a chance at role playing and dominating each other.
For men who have problems getting or sustaining an erection, strap ons can be the solution. In this case, men can use a strap on dildo so their partner can still experience penetration.
For those couples using strap on dildos to experience double penetration it take some practise getting into the rhythm! Coordinating the real penis and strap on dildo can be harder than it looks – but once the rhythm is mastered the benefits are amazing! A thrilling experience for both him and her.
For the woman receiving the double penetration, this may take some adjusting to having this full and wonderful feeling inside of her, it can be overwhelming and also tender at the same time.
When getting started with strap on sex its best to use plenty of lube – especially for anal action. Remember to ease into strap on sex, take your time. You're unlikely to be a professional the first time round! Be patient, take it slowly, get into the rhythm, and experience the joy of strap on sex.
After experimenting with strap on dildos, it can lead to more experimenting with other sex toys for couples, like double ended dildos. Strap on sex opens a world of opportunities in the bedroom, and can get you thinking about other scenarios you'd like to try, or other fetishes you might wanted fulfilled!
Suzie Harris writes for The Lazy Stud, Australia 's premier online adult shop selling sex toys for men, women and couples.
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